Ruining a marriage arrangement she doesn't want to be in in the first place makes her a bad person?
Arranged marriages are practically a form of slavery in the first place. She gets nothing but praise from me for not wanting to be a part of that system.
Her dad is sweetie though. I thought he was doing the whole "noble marrying his daughter off for politics" trope, but really he just wants grandkids and doesn't care who she marries.