From whom. You don't talk to strangers about such things in the first place, nor is it their place to talk about it.
When we are talking about family members though? If they won't, who will? There is no alternative other than seeking help and to get your life back in order. No matter how difficult, you can't expect *anyone* (not even your family) to carry you through 10 years of depression or whatever just like that. At some point in time, everyone will give up on you.